February’s Queerty Book Club pick is gay AF, ADHD & absolutely all over the place (in a good way!)

Get into 'Attention Seeker: A Neurodivergent Comedian’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD' by Darcy Michael.

Front and back covers of Attention Seeker by Darcy Michael. The front cover features a bold rainbow-gradient background with the title “Attention Seeker,” the author’s name at the top, and a cartoon illustration of Darcy Michael smiling in a beanie. The subtitle reads, “A neurodivergent comedian’s guide to thriving with ADHD.” The back cover shows Darcy Michael reclining and smiling against the same rainbow-gradient background, with the headline “Darcy wrote a book! (Because therapy got too expensive)” and several blurbs praising the book for its humor, honesty, and perspective on ADHD.

The Queerty Book Club’s February pick is Attention Seeker: A Neurodivergent Comedian’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD by Darcy Michael.

Michael is best known to many queer audiences for his sharp, confessional style of comedy that’s long centered vulnerability, self-awareness, and the tension between how we’re expected to behave and how we actually function—with an occasional touch of raunchiness along the way.

That sensibility carries into Attention Seeker, which approaches ADHD with humor and real-life honesty rather than with stigma.

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Why this book, why now

Rather than framing ADHD as something to fix or push past, Attention Seeker looks at what it means to live with a brain that doesn’t always follow expected patterns, especially when creativity, relationships, and work are all part of the equation. The book approaches neurodivergence as something to understand and live alongside, not a problem to solve.

For many queer readers, this subject hits close to home. Research highlighted by Psychology Today suggests that while roughly 15–20 percent of the population is neurodivergent and around 7–8 percent identifies as LGBTQ+, the overlap between those communities may be as high as 30 to 70 percent. Yet stories that speak directly to that shared experience remain relatively rare.

Reading along with the Queerty Book Club

The Queerty Book Club will be reading Attention Seeker: A Neurodivergent Comedian’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD starting February 15.

If you’re interested in joining, you have until February 14 to sign up for this book. During the sign-up process, you’ll choose the membership option that works best for you, and once reading begins, you’ll have access to the shared experience of the book and access to a community of fellow Queerty Book Club members on the Allstora platform.

If this book feels like it might put words to something you’ve been thinking about—or offer a perspective you don’t see often—consider this your invitation to explore it together.

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