Gay Travel Guide to South Korea: safety tips, bars, clubs & hotels

We came for the bibimbap and boy bands but stayed for the dynamic gay scene, breathtaking landscapes, and, let’s be honest, the chance to live our best K-drama fantasy. 

This is South Korea. A land where ancient temples and neon skyscrapers live in perfect harmony, and where fried chicken and soju fuel both your soul and your Saturday night…

We’re here to spill all the kimchi on how you can do the same, from the buzzing gay bars of Seoul to the hidden treasures of Jeju Island. Whether you’re looking for romance, adventure, or simply the perfect Instagram backdrop, South Korea delivers.

So, grab your best K-pop playlist, pack your most fabulous outfits, and follow us as we dive into South Korea’s gay scene, from Seoul’s pulsating queer heartbeat to the cultural gems scattered across this vibrant nation. 

One thing’s for sure, South Korea is ready to slay, and you won’t want to miss it…

LGBTQ+ rights in South Korea

South Korea is a country of contrasts when it comes to LGBTQ+ rights. 

On paper? Not exactly fabulous. There’s no nationwide legal recognition of gay marriage or same sex civil unions, no couple discounts on matching skincare routines… 

Discrimination protections? Thin on the ground. Adoption? That’s a nope. It’s not all doom and gloom, though: LGBTQ+ activism here is gaining traction, with Pride events like Seoul Queer Culture Festival growing bolder and brighter each year.

Culturally, the picture is equally mixed. Homosexuality isn’t illegal, but it’s a bit of a don’t-ask-don’t-tell situation…like your awkward uncle’s politics at Thanksgiving. 

In daily life, most locals adopt a ‘live and let live’ vibe, but public displays of affection might earn a few stares. That said, the queer community is thriving, particularly in Seoul’s Itaewon and Jongno districts, where drag queens, rainbow flags, and safe spaces reign supreme. 

South Korea may not be perfect, but it’s paving the way for change and is definitely one of the most gay friendly nations in Asia.

Are public displays of affection safe in South Korea?

Public displays of affection (PDA) in South Korea are a bit like ordering extra kimchi—you can do it, but don’t expect everyone to cheer you on. South Korea is generally polite and non-confrontational, so while you’re unlikely to face outright hostility for holding hands or sharing a quick peck with your same-sex partner, it might raise a few perfectly arched eyebrows.

That said, PDA isn’t hugely common here, even for straight couples. Koreans tend to keep their romantic gestures private, so while walking arm-in-arm is totally fine, full-on make out sessions might be a bit much—for everyone.

In Seoul’s Itaewon district, particularly in the gay-friendly Homo Hill area, PDA becomes less of a big deal. Here, it’s all about self-expression, rainbows, and living your best queer life. Outside the big cities? Tone it down a notch, but don’t worry too much. Korea is curious, not combative. Be yourself but read the room!

Top gay friendly hotels in South Korea?

Despite being a conservative country, South Korea packs a punch when it comes to gay friendly hotels. 

For Seoul, we recommend bookmarking our guide to the best gay hotels in Seoul. At a push and from personal experience the two we’d recommend are:

• Mondrian Seoul Itaewon: luxurious stay, short walking distance to the gay bars of Itaewon and also the place where some queer events are hosted like the Moonlight Circuit Festival in Feb/March.
• Nouvelle Seoul Itaewon: medium-budget option hotel located right in the heart of the gay scene of Seoul in Itaewon next to Homo Hill and the main gay bars. 

Another marker we use for determining whether a hotel is gay friendly is the new #TravelProud certificate that Booking .com awards to hotels that have successfully completed training to show that they truly welcome everybody!

In South Korea, we were delighted to see that the #TravelProud initiative has been rolled out. We list all the #TravelProud certified hotels below for reference in Seoul and Busan:

• Maison de Roco in Seoul
• BB Hongdae Line in Seoul
• Daeyoung Hotel Myeongdong in Seoul
• Aloft Seoul Myeongdong
• Serene Space Seoul
• Avani Central Busan

Gay bars and clubs in South Korea

The gay scene of South Korea surprised us. Sure, it's not quite the queer mecca of gay Berlin or San Francisco, but there’s an undeniable sparkle here: a mix of underground sass, progressive pockets, and yes, even K-dramatic queer romance if you know where to look. It’s the kind of place where you can go from worshipping ancient gods at a temple to worshipping RuPaul at a drag show in the same day.

Gay South Korea is largely concentrated in Seoul and to a lesser extent in Busan. 

The gay scene of Seoul is mainly found in and around Homo Hill in Itaewon, and in the neighborhood of Jongno. In Homo Hill you can find awesome bars like No Tea, Queen, Why Not, and clubs like Gym, Ground, and Ping. Over in Jongno are almost 100 small gay bars tucked away in unassuming blocks, similar to the gay scene of Tokyo in Nichōme 2 in Shinjuju, like M Bar, Stud, and My Hunk.

In South Korea’s second city, Busan, a handful of small and discreet gay bars like Kockiri, Kooper, Infierne, Bunker, and Rock can be found around Beomil-dong near the city center (Seomyeon). 

Seoul Pride and gay events in South Korea

South Korea may not have the same reputation for flamboyant Pride parades as New York Pride or Barcelona Pride. But it knows how to throw a queer party when it counts!

The Seoul Queer Culture Festival is the main event, usually held in summer, where rainbow flags fly proudly in Seoul Plaza. Think thousands of fabulous people marching, dancing, and celebrating diversity right in the heart of the city. It’s part protest, part party, and 100% unforgettable.

For muscle lads who want to party topless all night long, the Moonlight Circuit Festival in Seoul is where you need to be. Taking place every February/March, it brings together incredible DJs, performances, and a jaw-dropping thirsty crowd of muscle partygoers from all over Asia ready to slay the night. 

Beyond these, smaller events pop up throughout the year, from drag shows in Itaewon to LGBTQ+ film festivals. South Korea’s gay scene may not be massive, but what it lacks in size, it more than makes up for in heart and sparkle.

Top experiences in South Korea for LGBTQ+ travelers

When I traveled around South Korea, I was blown away by how much the country packs into its borders from bustling cities, serene mountains, quirky villages, and waterfalls that look like they fell out of a fantasy novel. 

It’s the kind of place where you can sip a matcha latte in Seoul one day and be hiking volcanic craters on Jeju Island the next. And trust me, gay or straight, South Korea’s charm works on everyone. 

The Sights of Seoul

Seoul is South Korea’s beating heart. Its historic sights are a must. I loved wandering through Bukchon Hanok Village, a gorgeous maze of traditional hanok houses where every corner is Insta-perfect. It felt like stepping back in time…if time also included coffee shops selling artisanal boba tea. For a deeper dive into Korea’s history, we explored the magnificent palaces, Gyeongbokgung and Changdeokgung. The former has stunning ceremonial halls and a changing of the guard ceremony worth catching, while the latter is all about the lush Secret Garden—perfect for a romantic stroll.

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Busan

Busan is South Korea’s laid-back beach city and an absolute vibe. Picture us: Seby in a sun hat, me in a questionable-but-fabulous pair of swim trunks, both sipping soju on Haeundae Beach. This city mixes coastal chill with city cool, offering everything from the colorful Gamcheon Culture Village (an artsy hillside neighborhood) to the epic Jagalchi Fish Market, where the seafood is fresher than my comebacks. At night, Busan comes alive with buzzing bars, street food markets, and ocean views that make you feel like you’ve wandered onto a film set.

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Day Trip to the DMZ

It’s lauded as a highlight of South Korea, but in all honesty, I was underwhelmed. It felt like I was in Disneyland because it’s all geared to large tour groups. In addition, the DMZ itself is now officially closed, and you can only visit the areas surrounding it on a day trip. There are many tours offered, we went with the GetYourGuide DMZ Tour which included visiting (and walking through) the Third Tunnel (which was dug by North Korea before it was discovered) and peeking across the border at the infamous Joint Security Area. Our tour also included visiting the Dora Observatory to get a glimpse of North Korea and the optional Suspension Bridge Tour add on.

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Seoraksan National Park

For nature lovers, Seoraksan is everything. There are scenic trails surrounded by dramatic granite peaks, misty valleys, and streams so pristine they practically begged for a photoshoot. The cable car ride up to Gwongeumseong Fortress is a must, like soaring into another world. If you time your visit in autumn, the foliage will absolutely take your breath away. And no, that wasn’t just me running out of cardio endurance! 

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Andong Hahoe Folk Village

This UNESCO-listed gem is like stepping onto a historical drama set, with straw-roofed houses, ancient Confucian traditions, and locals still practicing old-school crafts. We wandered through narrow lanes, snacked on traditional Korean treats, and even caught a traditional mask dance performance. It’s authentic, charming, and a great reminder of South Korea’s deep cultural roots. 

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Jeju Island

Jeju Island is South Korea’s tropical paradise, and I fell hard for it. We based ourselves in Seogwipo, where mornings began at the bustling Olle Market, sampling tangerine chocolates and Jeju black pork. The waterfalls are impressive albeit packed with tourists so go early to enjoy them: Cheonjiyeon and Jeongbang are the most impressive. We also hiked Hallasan, Korea’s tallest peak, which was as breathtaking as it was exhausting (note to self: do more squats before your next hike). For a gentler adventure, the Seongsan Ilchulbong sunrise hike gave us epic volcanic views without the leg burn. 

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Best foods and drinks to try in South Korea

If there’s one thing Seby and I love as much as travel, it’s food, especially when it’s sizzling, spicy, or served with a dozen side dishes. 

South Korea is a culinary wonderland where every bite is an explosion of flavor, texture, and soul-warming goodness. From smoky barbecue feasts to tangy, fermented surprises, this country knows how to keep your taste buds entertained. 

• Korean Barbecue: Korean barbecue is not just a meal—it’s an event! We had the time of our lives grilling our own meat at the table. Pro tip: always have kimchi handy for the ultimate flavor combo.
• Kimchi: Kimchi isn’t just food—it’s a lifestyle. This spicy, fermented cabbage side dish is served with everything and packs a tangy punch that keeps you coming back for more.
• Bibimbap: When in doubt, order bibimbap. This colorful bowl of rice, veggies, meat (or tofu), and a perfectly fried egg on top is as delicious as it is photogenic. Mix with a dollop of spicy gochujang and tuck in.
• Soju: Soju is the national drink of Korea. It is a slightly sweet, distilled liquor – think vodka’s charming, less aggressive cousin.
• Bulgogi: Bulgogi is Korean barbecue’s tender, sweet cousin, featuring thinly sliced marinated beef that melts in your mouth.
• Mandu: Korean dumplings, or mandu, are little pockets of heaven. Stuffed with pork, veggies, or kimchi, they’re perfect whether steamed, pan-fried, or boiled in soup.
• Jeju Black Pork: Jeju Island’s famous black pork is the Beyoncé of Korean barbecue: exclusive, iconic, and worth the hype. The meat is rich and flavorful, thanks to the pigs’ free-range island lifestyle!

Practical info for gay travelers to South Korea

Traveling to South Korea as a gay traveler is smooth sailing if you’re armed with the right tips and tricks. Here’s our rundown to help you navigate the Land of the Morning Calm like a pro:

• Download NAVER Maps: Forget Google Maps for navigation. It’s about as helpful in Korea as chopsticks at a soup party. Instead, download the NAVER Maps app, which provides accurate walking and driving directions.
• Get a Korean T-money Card: Public transport in South Korea is cashless, so grab a T-money card as soon as you arrive. It works on buses, subways, and even some taxis.
• Google Translate is your BFF: Most signage and labels are in Korean, so don’t leave home without Google Translate. The camera function is a game-changer, especially when you’re deciphering menus.
• Learn a few Korean phrases: Even a little effort goes a long way. “Annyeong haseyo” (hello) and “Kamsahamnida” (thank you) are a great start and guaranteed to earn smiles from locals.
• Try a Jjimjilbang: A Korean bathhouse (aka jjimjilbang) is a must for unwinding after sightseeing. Think steamy saunas, soothing baths, and cozy napping rooms.
• Be punctual: South Korea runs on Swiss-clock precision. Public transport leaves on the dot, and being late is a cultural no-no. If you’ve got plans or tours, show up early!

Plan your trip

We’ve put together some essential tips to help you plan your adventure to South Korea. Read on to discover everything a fabulous gay traveler needs to know before jetting off!

• When to visit: South Korea is a year-round destination with something for everyone. Spring (March to May) is all about cherry blossoms and mild weather. Summer (June to August) is hot and lively, with festivals and beach vibes, especially in Busan. Autumn (September to November) offers stunning foliage and cooler temps for hiking. Winter (December to February) is perfect for skiing and cozying up in jjimjilbang spas.
• Travel insurance: We swear by Heymondo Travel Insurance for peace of mind. It’s affordable and covers everything from medical emergencies to lost luggage. We published this article on the importance of travel insurance which we urge you to read.
• How to get there: Most international flights to South Korea land at Incheon International Airport near Seoul, which is one of the busiest and best-connected hubs in Asia. Alternatively, you can fly into Gimhae Airport for Busan or Jeju International Airport for the island life.
• Visa requirements: South Korea offers visa-free entry for most nationalities for stays of up to 90 days, but always check the latest visa requirements before you go.
• Getting around: South Korea’s public transport system is top-notch! Trains, subways, and buses are efficient and easy to use. For rural areas or more flexibility, we recommend renting a car. 
• Vaccinations: Most travelers don’t need specific vaccinations for South Korea, but it’s wise to check current health recommendations.
• Currency: The currency is the South Korean won (₩). $1 converts to around ₩1,300, £1 to about ₩1,700, and €1 is roughly ₩1,400. Apple Pay is not always accepted so make sure you have your physical bank card to hand.
• Tipping culture: Tipping is not customary in South Korea. The price on your bill includes everything.
• Accommodation: We use Booking.com, especially for finding LGBTQ+ welcoming places thanks to their #TravelProud certification. Trust us, a comfortable, gay-friendly stay makes all the difference!
• Sightseeing and adventure: For tours and day trips, GetYourGuide is a favorite. It’s straightforward to use and perfect for booking experiences like DMZ tours, palace visits, or Jeju island adventures.

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For more inspiration:

• For more fun in the region, check out the best gay cruises in Asia
• Then read our gay guide to the country of China!
• Along with our dedicated gay guide to the city of Shanghai
• If you're heading to Japan, use our gay friendly Japan itinerary to plan your trip
• And read our gay guide to the beautiful island of Hokkaido
• As well as our gay guide to the Yaeyama Islands, popular with Japanese honeymooners!

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